this is not relationship coaching.

it isn’t treatment, it’s training

especially for those who didn’t have healthy dynamics modeled for them

we love building a union we’re truly proud of and deeply admire

it’s performance coaching with simple math for love mastery

not the hospital, to fix what's broken

this is the relationship gym

not treatment, it’s training for

Peace. Power. Play.

this FREE short book breaks down the exact performance coaching system for the happy relationship you want.

you’re brilliant, have a huge heart and a high EQ.

but when it comes to love, nothing you do seems to be enough.

you’re not broken. you are simply undertrained.

read this short book today. use it tonight.

3 days to a happy, successful relationship with simple math

this FREE SHORT book breaks down

the exact simple math of happy, successful relationships

=one decision + 3 relationship ratios + nervous system capacity

    what’s inside?

    We do not need more information.

    We need intelligence. Relating Intelligence.

    Inside this book, you will get the exact training you need to build a successful relationship with peace, power, and play.

    The One Decision

    Stop wasting time with 'the work' that doesn't work, and discover the exact identity shift required to become the partner you want to be.

    The 3 Relationship Ratios

    Learn the proprietary dials... Container, Curiosity, and Challenge... to stop fighting over the same things and rebuild wild desire.

    Nervous System Capacity

    Stop losing your cool under pressure and learn the 4 questions of the 30-second relationship rep to use mid-argument.

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      Relating Intelligence is the simple math of happy relationships

      = one decision

      +3 relationship ratios

      +nervous system capacity

      This free short book gives you the fastest path to a happy, successful relationship.

        a note from the author Anna Shilina

        I wrote this book because I needed it.

        I spent years struggling with relationships and frustrating patterns.

        The more I could understand why I did what I did, and

        trace every pattern to its origin,

        the more frustrating it became to

        go home and repeat it anyway.

        That gap… between knowing a pattern and being able to interrupt it…

        that's what broke me open.

        That's what this book closes.

        Not by changing who you are.

        By bringing out more of who you already are.

        The trained version.

        Relationships are ratios plus capacity.

          Anna has an incredible gift of helping people tap into their full potential in business and relationships”

          Pa J.

          Anna helped me with my relationship with my mom. I’ve always battled to understand her struggles and have true compassion for her until Anna’s coaching.”

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          Anna’s coaching has completely transformed my relationship with myself, as well as the relationship with my parents and my brother.

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          Anna’s unwavering commitment to the success of her clients is inspiring.”

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          My relationship with my business is so much better after Anna’s coaching. I used to work on my client’s businesses day and night. Now I only work on my business when I want to and truly live a life of freedom.

          June M.